Healing Hearts Counseling

Providing couples with hope, support and Guidance.

Sometimes when you can’t feel securely connected to your partner, you may end up feeling distressed, sad, angry and alone, or you end up becoming critical and demanding, poking at your partner to get a reaction because you feel isolated or misunderstood. Some may feel like no matter what you do, you can’t seem to get it right with your partner, nothing is ever good enough, so you end up shutting down and pulling away. Maybe you avoid difficult topics because it always seems to escalate, or you seem to fight over things that seem trivial and petty. You end up feeling bewildered, how does it end up going so wrong? We love each other, why can’t we get along with each other? Why can’t I get across to my partner? How did we get here? We are here to help. We have researched based methods through the use of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to understanding this distress, and we have a map of how to guide you back into secure, intimate connection. We have researched based methods of helping you pull out of this negative pattern.

As counselors for your intimate relationship, we do more than just listen. We provide skills and tools through the use of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to help you solve these and other problems in your relationship. We help you pull out of negative patterns, understand what underlies yours and your partners reactions in these patterns, and help heal the resulting wounds, restore friendship, deepen intimacy and connection, and strengthen your relationship.